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Old ways the best when dealing with grief


Grief is a natural part of bereavement.

However, for as many as 4.8 million Americans each year, it can result in an increased risk of physical ailments such as heart disease and hypertension.

Especially among the elderly, traumatic grief — mourning which is abnormal and unhealthy — also can lead to sleep and nutritional disorders, major depression and substance abuse.

An estimated 16 million people are bereaved of a close friend or family member annually in the United States.

Most of these people experience moderate to intense grief at the loss; this is normal and healthy.

However, for a significant minority, this ordinary mourning turns into debilitating traumatic or complicated grief.

This is especially common in widowed men.

Sufferers of traumatic grief typically display certain signs of unhealthy mourning from two to six months after the death:

• Difficulty accepting the death.

• Recurrent, intense grief and a feeling that otherwise memory of the deceased would be lost forever.

• Disturbing and intrusive images of the deceased and particularly the death itself.

• Avoiding social situations or activities associated with the deceased.

• Difficulty letting go of personal effects, photographs and other reminders.

• Reveries that interfere with day-to-day functioning.

So how can doctors and hospice personnel deal with patients' grief?

Experts say the old ways are often the best: Traditional mourning rituals can help mourners feel grounded.

In addition, they legitimize emotional and physical expression and validate people's feelings, providing a means of release that doesn't violate personal or cultural conditioning.

It is important that doctors help families and older people in particular cope with and move past their grief because many studies show that the bereaved are at higher risk for increased morbidity and mortality following a loss.

One service therapists can provide is to help design rituals that are meaningful to them. This can be an enormous gift doctors can give patients and their families.

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